The Weight of Missing Her: Grief at Christmas
When my mother passed, my first instinct was to focus on her. Was she at peace? Was she okay? It felt like my heart and mind were preoccupied with making sure she was safe, even though I knew I couldn’t do anything about it. I poured my energy into honoring her, almost as if my…
Did They Know How Much I Loved Them?
It’s a question that haunts so many of us after loss: Did they know how much I loved them? It lingers in the quiet moments, slipping into the stillness like an uninvited guest. For those of us left behind, it’s a thought that can spiral—pulling us into a vortex of memories, missed opportunities, and silent…
What Would They Want Me to Do Now?
Discover compassionate guidance on navigating grief in the wake of loss. This heartfelt article explores the question, “What would they want me to do now?” offering insights on honoring loved ones, finding healing, and embracing life with their memory as your guide. A comforting read for anyone seeking solace and direction.
What Their Death Means for the Rest of My Life
Losing someone we love feels like a piece of our soul gets ripped away. The emptiness they leave behind echoes in ways words can barely capture. But as painful as it is, the truth stands unwavering: it’s better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. Here’s why their love—and even…
Could I Have Done More? A Holistic Reflection on Loss
Grief often leads us to wonder if we could have done more when a loved one passes away, resulting in guilt and self-reproach. It’s essential to recognize our influence is limited and to find value in everyday moments of care. Ultimately, honoring their memory involves living intentionally and embracing connection, gratitude, and kindness.
The First Letter: Finding the Words to Begin
A heartfelt tribute to a mother’s enduring presence after her passing. This first letter in the “Letters to My Mother” series reflects on love, loss, and the strength to carry on, honoring her legacy. A touching narrative of connection, family, and the journey through grief
Letters to My Mother: A Journey of Love, Loss, and Healing
Grief is a language we learn reluctantly, often thrust upon us when life’s most precious relationships are severed. For me, this language has been a constant companion since I lost my mother unexpectedly. While time has softened the sharp edges of her absence, the void she left remains, echoing in quiet moments and unexpected memories.…
Is There an Afterlife, and Will I See Them Again? A Journey Through Love, Loss, and Eternal Connection
When we lose someone we love, the question that often haunts us is whether we will ever see them again. It’s a query that transcends culture, age, and background. To search for an answer, we must journey through the realms of religion, philosophy, and spirituality. While certainty is elusive, there are profound insights that can…
Reflecting on the Loss of My Mother: A Journey Through Guilt, Love, and Healing
When my mother first passed, the weight of guilt and shame hit me like a tidal wave. How did I not see this coming? There had been so many signs—clear as day when I look back now. Had I ignored them? Or was my mind trying to protect me, hiding the truth in some locked-away…